Need Prayers badly for my bf

kathied41 · **Posted:** 06 Sep 2009 20:11

She had weight loss surgery last tues and I visited her wens and she was doing
good but was vomiting. She was supposed to come home thurs or sat at the latest.
Her dh just sent me a 911 message and I called him back. She has sprung a leak
inside and has an infection. They have her in critical care with about 10 tubes.
Please pray for healing and guidence for her drs/nurses. She has 3 kids.
Thanx guys
Kathie

bkokc00 · **Posted:** 06 Sep 2009 21:45

oh no, that's scary, i'll be praying for your friend!

kathied41 · **Posted:** 11 Sep 2009 21:50

Her dh came by today and its not good. They tried taking the ventilator off wens and she couldn't breathe on her own. Yesterday they did a cat scan and found fluid on her brain in the area that controls breathing. They have her on iv's of meds but it doesn't look good. She is only 43 and has 3 children. At this point we desperately need a miracle.
Thanx for all the prayers and good thoughts and keep sending them, I know miracles can and do happen.
Kathie

couponprincess · **Posted:** 11 Sep 2009 22:47

Saying a prayer for a miracle right now.. Can I ask which surgery she had?

saversmurf · **Posted:** 12 Sep 2009 07:06

everyone is in my prayers. please keep us updated. have strength and know god is with you.

kathied41 · **Posted:** 15 Sep 2009 22:39

she had the reg bariatric surgery-gastric bypass. I was thinking of doing the band but now I won't. I don't have high bp or diabetes. I haven't heard anything since fri and hopefully no news is good news. She had been having alot of stress problems with her dh and like my mom said yesterday she feels she will survive as this is a wake up call from God to her dh as he isn't motivated job or otherwise.
The sad thing is they have 3 kids the oldest is 13 and autistic and then they have 9yr old twin boys.
I really don't think emotionally or mentally he's fit to raise them. They need their mother big time.
Her name is Helen.
Kathie

kathied41 · **Posted:** 22 Sep 2009 20:29

Thanx for all your prayers and good thoughts. My gf passed last nite around 10;50pm.
Her dh is a jerk and that is putting it mildly. My db's ex gf says he's in denile.
Her funeral is fri, and veiwing hrs are thurs. I'm doing ok, but know when I see her mom I wont-her mom is not doing too good. Her dh said fri he was ordering a 3rd eeg and if it was the same as the last 2 he was going to have her removed from the vent monday. I agree with her mom because she did have blood flow to her brain and wasnt completely brain dead thus meaning hope. This may end up an ordeal, but if it does, I will side on her families side as I was a part of that family for many many years. He is already figured how much he will get from social security for him and the 3 boys and she's not even buried yet. arrrr!
Sorry to ramble, I have a tendancy these days :-)

Kathie

couponprincess · **Posted:** 22 Sep 2009 22:10

OMG... I am so sorry. I will pray for you and her family tonight.

Karen_Perea · **Posted:** 24 Sep 2009 13:26

Sorry for your loss. You and her family are in our prayers.

karen lea · **Posted:** 24 Sep 2009 22:58

You know that is really bad when people figure out how much money that they can get before the body is even cold....greedy greedy people...Kathie I am sorry for your loss...take care

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