Yes, we all have done stuff like that
Sometimes when people do stuff like that, we want to make something up to cover our tracks. Lies just create more issues. Sometimes when people are complaining about what we see are good things, things could be much different than we are perceiving them to be. Just because someone works 35 hours a week, and gets bonuses doesn't mean the job is just perfect.
But I think I might say something bringing to attention the blessings of the job or situation, and try to turn it to a more positive conversation, to encourage.
I agree with blesseddaddy, try apologizing. (with out making any sort of excuse as to why it happened), be honest with them, admit to the mistake, and the rest is up to them! Then you gotta forgive yourself, and maybe not even think about texting while family is around
SAHM of 5
Do not rob the poor because he is poor, And oppress not the afflicted at the gate.
For YHWH pleads their cause, And shall plunder those who plunder them. Prov. 22:22-23